Respectful Greetings

Sigung’s Corner

by Sigung David Moylan
Fu For You Spring 2023

During my sixteen years training under Sigung Bob Schneider, I witnessed a few significant changes to our martial arts etiquette. He led us with traditional values and authored most of the Academy Rules (found in the Student Handbook). Sigung started training under Grand Master Pan Qingfu in the early 90’s, who had recently emigrated from China. This relationship really refined our style and informed the etiquette we follow to this day. One example is the method in which we hand off documents like grading letters and envelopes, whereby we use two hands, presenting it so that the wording is turned to the receiver.

Some of our etiquette stems from the philosophical roots of Kung Fu, one of which is Confucianism. As a means of maintaining social order, Confucius (551 BCE) stressed the importance of loyalty and held that those in a more senior position should be shown a level of respect, especially grandparents, parents and teachers.

At WKFA, a daily way we show respect is by greeting one another using the Shaolin salutation, whereby the left open hand (fingers together), covers the right first. In addition, we use our voices to say “Hello _____” with the appropriate title (if applicable) and name. We try to demonstrate this learned gesture of respect upon first seeing our teachers. As a finer point of this etiquette, the less senior student (by rank, then age) should initiate the greeting.

From my perspectives as a student, Sifu, head instructor and parent, I can attest to the power of a mindful “hello.” Many are drawn to traditional martial arts for our adherence to positive values, namely respect, discipline and spirit. Studying Kung Fu can also develop self-confidence. Regardless of age, simply saying “hello” is an important first step in developing social skills and building confidence. I understand that looking a person in the eye and consciously greeting them is not easy for everyone, but Kung Fu calls us to many challenges in the interest of becoming better people.

In classes, I often encourage our students to apply this practice outside of the Academy. Greeting family, teachers, classmates, co-workers and even strangers strengthens the fabric of society. On mornings after dropping my daughter off, an elderly gentleman near the school stands outside saying hello to every passer-by. I make a point of going past his house to exchange pleasantries—it totally makes my day!

A practical consideration for saying hello to an instructor—if they’re already in a conversation, please don’t interrupt them. Let them finish their moment and say hello when/if the opportunity presents. I also get asked if parents need to say “Hello Sifu/Sigung,” and I joke that this is not a requirement…until you’re also a student. That said, if you feel it sets a good example for your child, it’s not expected, but is appreciated.

I would love to see our Kung Fu community give renewed attention to this humble but potent tradition of greeting one another with respect.

Read more articles about Respect in Martial Arts and Kung-Fu Etiquette.